Saturday, July 25, 2009

Stupid Love! Save it or Leave it!


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How did u know if enough is enough? How can we fix stupidity or is it stupid to love more even if it blows down your self esteem, tear your heart into pieces and even kill you slowly inside???. Is it stupid to stay or timid to leave? Sometimes things need to go wrong to appreciate and determine what is right.

Lately i was attentively listening to some sentiments towards various situation... they are in hopeless grief but love is holding them to stay even if they knew its more than enough. The hardest thing in loving someone is to see them loving someone else, to feel emptiness and cold... that even when your close it seems like she/he is unreachable. What if someone will say its over.... there is no holding back nor saving the relationship? but you still want to save it? Nothing was left but drain off with so much pain.

What do you prefer to do are you gonna try one more time or move on? Accordingly letting go is healing, let go of your fears, your pain and even your love because if love is mean to be it will always comeback but if not its never bound to be. If someone lost the faith to listen there's no good of talking anymore. If too much abuse is inflicted that's not loving at all nor not even to yourself of allowing such things, once is more than enough yes abuse is in different forms but what ever it is since its an " abuse" that's no way to excuse.

Some people even get suicide because of losing hope but if they can only look back that life is beautiful with unlimited chances to start over and over and over again and those circumstances are just spices to boast your personality. I appreciate this one lady despite of everything she never said she will give up nor die that's inspiring isn't it? She keep hoping that miracle will come to happen and save her marriage...i don't know and no one know, but who knows? maybe? possibly? The couple that used to be inseparable but now was tested by time and so much struggles....

Love is like a plant to nourish it is to pour little bit of everything water, air and little sunshine if not it will die... Too much of something is never been good, we don't need too much but little bit of everything to survive.


11 comments:

paul said...

deep down inside you know when a relationship is not going to work, i can say this because i am guilty of this myself,now that i have met the right one i look back and see how much of my life i wasted.
the good thing to come out of it,i can recognize the good that i have now

emie said...

such wisdom am so proud of you that u was able to look back and realize but it was never been late you got the right one maybe it was just not mean to be... the good thing is we learn from it and can do more choices..chances are unlimited to love and care

reanaclaire said...

nothing is enough if we r greedy..

Dorothy L said...

There has to be a balance in everything.
When a relationship is one sided it will never balance out...it will eventually fall because one side cannot carry all of the weight all of the time.

People also must realize that it is not the end of life when a relationship ends. They put way too much dependency on their partner and basically put themselves in a position to feel like they cannot live life alone.

emie said...

i agree with you,most people who are blinded in love said this lines "someone completes them"or... "You complete me" we should consider the fact that we are always complete as whole individual, and we live not because of other people only but we live because of ourselves

Marianne said...

nice post!!!

jodi said...

letting go is healing!!! yeah right but sometime we want he/she to let go because we love them, because we care for them..and letting go is an option that we want them to be...and if you love him/her, i think the best thing that you can do is let them go for they are not happy with the love that we give to them...god bless you sis, friends 4ever

sweete said...

Love such a nice feeling .Which is filled with both worries and happiness.if u succed happiness is everlasting.feel and see

Dorothy L said...

Hello...shoutboxes seem to be down on many blogs tonight so I am leaving my thoughts in here.....

Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.

donna said...

Sometimes life can be called plain stupidity. Our decisions is not merely because for ourselves, to ourselves and from ourselves. It tackles more than that and fathom more than something ----- something that maybe we can never understand.

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