Sunday, July 19, 2009

I love You Good Bye

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."
-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Today i felt so much hurt when i talked to my home girl stumbled with so much grief and despair. How does it feel to be expecting something for years being led on when you could reroute your life and progress the way you really want to go? Its better to be known what is the real score than making believe of some lies.

What happen if you completely devote yourself to someone for years and after that it was just a sham and one day he will just broke your heart and say goodbye? What if one day your world will tell you "my heart grown cold! but i love you goodbye? what i love you but goodbye? that's insane. My friend said what if refresh means farewell forever? men am so hurt why women suffers more than men?

Millions of heart bleeds because of some promises that never been kept, promises to love and to hold but at the end its just a desperate farewell and tears. A friend who love sincerely and just being played by time and some heartless individual.

As what i said i could not decide because am not on their shoes but maybe they just need sometimes to find themselves and grow. Sometimes we are blinded and can not read between the lines because we tried to be denial of some truth even if we are wounded inside we still try to show a smile and say i am fine.

All i wish to her is to get up and realize and say " i love myself more, i got family to think of and if this love is not mean to be then so be it"!!!! he don't deserve me then. what do u think folks do we need to die and grow old hopelessly because someone leave us behind?


Dorothy L said...

That is all you can say. Heartbreak is overwhelming and can be as captivating as love.
It is an emotional challenge to step out of the hurt and let it go.
If your friend is strong and can allow her love for life to guide her then she will get past this.
Self-Love is vital to anyone in order to overcome so many elements of life.

Take Care~

emie said...

yes i agree with you was trying to let her realize that she need to let go, but she said her world just tear down into pieces. She dont left anything to herself she even told me to love is to give her all,i just wish she could handle it...

paul said...

love like has tto be handled with under standing, to put all eggs in one basket is certain tragedy . face each step inlife with eyes wide open,there will always be a bump in the road

yub personal page said...

nice post ! I agree with you girl//god bless

chris said...

Unfortunately the world stops for no one. The best you can do is stand up and move on, even if little by little.

Donnalyn Weir said...

Life is like that. We sometimes get hurt but what can we do? I think she better get up and move on. It's not easy to do for sure, but i know she can if she'll be strong enough to admit the fact that he isnt the right now. There is no use loving someone who doesn't deserve it. Love should bring happiness and not the other way around.

emie said...

i agree all i hope for her is to realize and realize and realize shes blinded right now, and she never deserve it shes a genuine person who only wish to be love and be loved

Dorothy L said...

You sound like a very supportive friend...just be there when she needs to lean on you. That is similar to watching ones children deal with life's challenges.

All you can do is be there:)