Why We Need to Prove Ourselves???

"Do not judge lest you be judged. "For in the way that you judge you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. "And why do you look at the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? "Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' and behold, the log is in your own eye? "You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye." (Matthew 7:1-5)


Some people go with the first impressions, the time they put their eyes on you, your conduct and even your appearance was even evaluated and concluded by reasoning. I do believe that we are not supposed to live on other peoples impressions but live out loud of who we really are. We cant please every one but at least we show the best modest way we could ever show to create a good relationship. Some people are such a phony to please people to like them well that is not right at all, and some people talk & go against people lives to upgrade themselves...to show they are much better and made out some hell story to ruin even a dear friend...

Who cares if others acts differently??? well each of us live our lives in a unique kind of way, literally when different cultures and norms are involve. Recently i had a dilemma of how i will fight for my right as a person... to much was said about me such and such was made up and am almost drawn with it. From all the experience i had i learned that vengeance is not really ours because justice will always prevails sooner or later...to people who talk a lot of bad things against others later on of their lives they will all eat it and that is KARMA....

But surprisingly everything was justified in the proper place and time. I met my in laws and they are very amazing individual i was overwhelmed with so much love and acceptance, and in that the same time i received my actual card...I cant thank God enough for such bunches of gifts and blessings. I had so much fun... I have more than i expected...

Sometimes in our lives we tried to prove something that what ever was said about us was not true, it might be in our personal issues of endeavor or even to our commitments, some people are just fun of making up and running their mouth to say some lie.

Life is so short i never dwell from the past but i always look forward to start a new beginning with good memories and love. Do I forgive? Yes.... condemn the sin not sinner but to forget it i don't think so??? is just almost a sin either.

Our Father prayer goes like this..."And forgive us our sins, just as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us . . . If you forgive those who sin against us, our heavenly Father will forgive us. But if we refuse to forgive others,our Father will not forgive our sins” (Matthew 6:12, 14-15).